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The Messes Can Wait

Today was a success. 

My floors aren’t vacuumed and my bathrooms are picked up, but not really clean. 

My laundry is only partially done.

I didn’t shower today.

The kids ate tomatoes and quesadillas from the microwave for dinner. 

We ate it at 9:00pm.

Their rooms are pigstys.


We spent two hours at the park.

We went to the library and restocked our “to read” piles.

We had an hour and a half of cuddle/rest time in my bed and giggled and talked the whole time.

We spent two hours outside riding bikes, jump roping, walking Kai in his stroller and chasing around. 

We had ice cream with fresh fruit for dessert.

Every time they asked if they could have a cookie today I said, “yes”, until they were gone.  They were in shock.

They went to bed tired and happy.

MUCH more rewarding than a spotless house.

  • Ahh, that IS a perfect day. I wish I’d been there, too.

  • That does sound like an awesome day.
    What fun.

  • Sus

    good for you. you have to celebrate those great days when you rock and everybody is happy. i think that is just what i need, actually: to give in. maybe i will. right after i catch up on some email.

  • You inspire me! I need to that with my kids!

  • I think I need to do that cookie thing – for scientific reasons, of course. I want to see how my kids react.

    It sounds like you have a great perspective.

  • I love how you think!

  • What a fun day!

  • This inspired me so much I linked to it from my blog. Thank you.

  • Rachel Adams/Rydalch

    Kim – I really love your parenting philosophies! (yes…I have just been stalking your entire blog. And I love it 🙂 I miss your family so much, and I hope I can have days like this when I’m a Mom too 🙂